Thursday, June 9, 2011

Comments, Tweets, FB, or Phone Calls

I got a call earlier this week from my husband's cousin. She lives about 4 1/2 hours from us, so we don't see her very often. Mostly on holidays and other special occasions. But she's great. Want an example? Well, that call that I got earlier in the week, it was to tell me that she reads my blogs. She doesn't always comment (do any of us?), but wanted to let me know that she does read them and really likes them. Is that not the coolest thing ever? It totally made my day.

I know that lots of bloggers really prefer the response to their blog posts to come in the form of comments. I, too love comments. (Even though I can't get my new comments to work quite the way that I want them to just yet. *sigh*) So if you're feeling so inclined, please leave a comment. But I also know that sometimes leaving comments is probably the least user-friendly way of responding to a blog post. You have to enter your name and your email address and your web address. Sometimes you need to need to login through some other account. Some people have (gasp) captcha. I do a lot of blog reading from my iPhone, so jumping through all those hoops on my tiny little screen is an even bigger pain. OR if I read blogs through my Google Reader iPhone app, it's an even bigger pain, since you have to leave the Reader format to go to the actual site, but when I get there, Google still makes me login even though it knows it's me since I'm logged into Reader, just to leave a comments. In the end, a response tweet or a comment through FB is just SO much easier.

And then there are all those blog posts that you read that make you smile or think or that you just kinda like, but don't have any really deep response to. And it makes me think that what I always thought of as the stupid Facebook Like button maybe wasn't such a bad idea after all. Because sometimes all of those hoops you have to jump through just to say, "nice post" just aren't worth it.

So I'm going on record. I love comments. Feel free to leave me one. But if you'd rather respond via Tweet or FB or even by giving me a call, I'm totally cool with that, too. (I realize that most of you don't have access to that last option. Sorry about that. And no, I'm not giving you my phone number.)

And to cousin-in-law Becky: Thanks. You made my day.

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How about personalized skywriting? Are you cool with that? ;)
1 reply · active 720 weeks ago
Yay! That is always nice to hear. Though, I've never received such a call. But of course, my family doesn't know about my blogs. Unless they google me. Creeps.
1 reply · active 720 weeks ago
I LOVE COMMENTS, TOO!!
Here, have another one. I'm giving them away today!! YAY.
1 reply · active 720 weeks ago
I read a lot of blogs, but am also guilty of not always leaving comments. Sounds like we're in the same boat. I have people who read every post I write, but never comment unless I mention it. Like my step mom... OMG she reads everything I write, looks at every picture I post, but has never once posted a comment on my blog or Facebook. It's kinda creepy...

Anyway, I always enjoy your blog, even if I don't comment. Typically if I retweet a blog posting that's my lazy way of saying "Hey, I enjoyed your post. Not sure what to say about it, but I'm passing it along so others can enjoy it too" or possibly "I'm lazy, rather than actually write anything I'll use your Tweet button and give you a virtual pat on the back" :)
2 replies · active 720 weeks ago
Oh that Becky is probably just buttering you up for some kind of babysitting in the future ;) She's shifty like that.
1 reply · active 720 weeks ago
I'm also guilty of reading but not always commenting. Like you, I read on my phone a lot and it's just not easy to comment from there.
2 replies · active 720 weeks ago
I admit it, I read a lot but comment a little. I just don't always have something witty or intelligent to say. Definitely don't want to type Ms P was here...LOL! I'm ok w/FB likes (or comments) or tweets. =)
1 reply · active 720 weeks ago
I'm a comment lover. I admit it. I've been looking for a 12 step program to help me deal with it, but so far, no luck.
1 reply · active less than 1 minute ago
I am horrid at comments. My phone has swype and between that, the itty bitty letters, and auto correct.....it is hard
1 reply · active 720 weeks ago
I know what you mean! I understand comments can be annoying to post, twitter is fine with me !
1 reply · active 720 weeks ago
And (GASP!) I didn't realize I wasn't following. Problem solved.... finally.
1 reply · active 720 weeks ago
I love comments too! I always feel bad when I don't get any. I feel so impotent as a blogger. Thats why I like the FB option. But it seems nobody uses that either.

Round and round we go. Nobody comments, do they read me. I will never know!

Love you rubyspikes!
1 reply · active 720 weeks ago
I just found you via twitter! And I have to say that you are awesomesauce!

I also love comments. I love them anywhere! I recently realized that it is kind of awesome for someone to tweet you a thanks for the amazing post tweet.
1 reply · active 717 weeks ago

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